In the event that you’ve ever been ghosted after starting up with some body, then you definitely understand so just how f*cked up it could feel. This happened certainly to me the very first time ( perhaps not a brag) maybe not that way back when, and my ego ended up being literally shattered, particularly him when I went to kiss him goodbye because I tripped over his foot and headbutted. RIP. If you’re anything at all like me, you’re most likely likely to blame yourself and overthink about WTF could’ve happened—and that’s totally normal. Or perhaps you might blame the one who ghosted you to be a player. It’s likely that it is perhaps perhaps not your fault, but FWIW, it is not necessarily because they’re a jerk either. That’s clearly a stronger possibility, but you will find a million other explanations why some one might fade away that don’t automatically mean they’re a terrible person after you hook up with them.